Friday, June 17, 2011

Snippets from the morn...

Six a.m. rolled along and I struggled with myself, weighing both pros and cons of exercising this morning. Thirty minutes after deliberating, the verdict was in. I would take advantage of the low temperatures, the rising sun, and the coolness from the Delta blowing through Midtown. I sat up in my bed, took a deep breath in and noticed the funny little girl with the matted bed head popping up to seize the day.

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I opened my front door this morning anticipating our Farm Fresh To You box. Sure enough, there it was! Tiny and cute ( we still wanted to support our local farms so we decided to switch to a small fruit box every other week and continue shopping at our local Farmer's market ). I was excited to see what kind of goodies we'd have for the next couple days, and so was Lola. As I opened it, she quickly took over, ripping through it like an excited child on Christmas morning. She gladly settled with a yellow nectarine.

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I listen to Pandora on my phone when I run, but I forgot to bring headphones this time. As we were jogging  down one of my favorite streets, I realized Lola's little moccasins moving rhythmically to this song playing. As I pulled the shade back, I saw that she was having a full on dance party in the jogging stroller.

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We ran, literally, to the grocery store to pick up some milk, eggs, bananas, and dinner for Lola ( because mama and papa are going out tonight!!!!! ) when we ran into my neighbor at the grocery store. We chatted outside for a couple minutes when a woman wearing headphones walked by confidently belting Nelly Furtado's, I'm like a bird. She got the expected wide eyed looks, but she seemed to be having a good time. Sing it girl!

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Lola is an active participant when Super Why is on. She stands in front of the screen and waits for them to ask for letters. Then she quickly points. So cute and so smart!

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Today has the potential to be wonderful. 
Seize it.
Happy Friday.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Scenes from an afternoon & Fill in the blank Friday

Life is good.

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1.   The last movie I saw was  Coraline.  I really enjoyed it, but I'm really glad I never took my little cousins to see it. It would've creeped them out a bit.

2.  I want to go to Portland sometime in the next couple months. I'm trying really hard to convince Pieter that Portland is where we need to be!

3.  Surprises are   fun, but I've never been any good at keeping them. I think I get so excited that I just want someone to be excited with me. 

4.  The best accessory is confidence.

5.  My favorite warm drink is   English breakfast tea, straight up.

6.  My favorite cold drink is  currently Naked OJ. YUM!

7.  Currently loving  Beirut's Elephant Gun and fishtail braids.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Uncharted Waters - First Edition

The uncharted waters of the terrible twos have been about more than the rogue waves of public temper tantrums. They have been about development. Independence. Spontaneous bouts of affection and a sensitive, comforting spirit.

I'll touch more on the other aspects later, but for now I just want to say that I am a proud mother. In the past two years, there have been countless times where I've sat and wondered if we're raising our daughter right. If by raising her, from what may as well be a state away from our family, will she be confident? Self-assured? Will she believe that she is worthy of everything that life has to offer and more? I've wondered if raising her without religious foundations but teaching her to love and be compassionate, will that be enough? Can she grow to be good and do good and to love all equally? Will she make the right choices?

I've seen a glimpse of a product of hope. And I am proud.

My hand-me-down cold took a turn for the worse when my ear became stuffed up to the point where I couldn't hear. Pros and cons, let me tell you! It turns out, it is only an ear infection, but a severe one at that. This morning after getting home from work, I felt horrible. Nauseated, cold, feverish, and dizzy. Desperate to be taken care of.

I was reassured that everything would be fine. Lola looked at me with those big browns and said, "Mommy sick." Did I mention that I love that she calls me mommy now? She came over and stuffed a variety of her plastic fruits and vegetables under my blanket, for nourishment of course, each time covering me up and patting my back softly and slowly. This little gesture, the affection and thought behind it, came through with her big, comforting spirit.



She's turning into a good little human.

Calm seas ahead!

Friday, June 10, 2011

Cancelled Flights and Southern California

It's been a slow week recuperating from the cold Lola so kindly shared with Pieter then selflessly handed over to me. Our suitcases are still packed, unzipped nonetheless, allowing me to sneak in and out to grab what I need without putting a real dent on it. Maybe I'm lazy. Maybe I have better things to invest my time in. Maybe those packed suitcases hold the little sentiment of the wonderful time spent with my family last week. After all these years of living on my own, it's still so good to go home. 

Pieter dropped Lola and me off at the airport early Tuesday morning where we expected to leave for Ontario at noon. After Lola's first public temper tantrum left me with a sudden panic attack, where if you saw the look on my face it would read, she's never done this before, we received the unfortunate news that our flight was cancelled and we'd be bumped to a 3:15 flight. Great. I can handle extra hours in an airport, alone, but after that very public episode where Lola lost her marbles in the security line because she didn't want her pink Converse x-rayed, I knew I needed to keep her busy. So we high-tailed it to the slower end of the airport to watch the airplanes.
We spent a couple hours perched up against a window watching lustfully as groups A, B, and C lined up and piled onto plane after plane. So to pass the time we read Goodnight, Moon countless times, munched on snacks, and watched as the weather changed from sunny to dark and gloomy.
The Paper Mama
 Thank goodness Pieter let us take the iPad. Five hours in an airport is a really long time with a two year old. Yep, she's still hooked on that horse song from a couple weeks ago!

 I was a little apprehensive about having an iPad for Lola, but it is a wonderful tool for learning and was really utilized on our trip. Lola is blowing me away with how much she's learned. She can navigate though her apps, can identify most of the uppercase letters and some lowercase, and knows her colors. Amazing, right! Thanks Grandma Jane and Grandpa Tom!!!! She's going to be the smartest kid on the block!

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 Being at my Mom's house is always surreal. Comforting. Rejuvenating. I'm always taken back by the feeling I get when I'm there, as if nothing has changed. I still expect to see my siblings as little kids, my brothers fighting with each other and my little sister asking if she can tag along. That's not the case though. The house is calm and quiet but still smells the way I remember.

My mom has a small chihuahua named Mini, who rightfully earned this name because he resembles a smaller version of the Red-Tri Australian Shepherd we had growing up. Lola absolutely adores him. The feeling, however, isn't mutual judging by the way he'll run in the opposite direction when he sees her coming. Lola tried really hard to win him over, going the extra mile to find some common ground, something they could both relate to. Turns out she likes dog biscuits too. Oh the things we do to impress family members.

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I was able to visit with Justine, the eldest daughter of one of my Mom's closest friends. I've known her for twelve years, since our sister's were in kindergarten. She's about four years younger than me and is like a sister. I've watched her grow up, gave her a place to crash while she was taking summer classes in Riverside, and now we both have the joy of mothering little girls. Her daughter is the sweetest, most kind, and beautiful little thing. She really took a liking to Lola, even in her current state of terrible-twoism. She tried to console Lola after she woke up from her nap in a foul mood. Sure enough, her charm won Lola over...
...or maybe it was her fascination with Lola's sandals. Nevertheless, the evolution of our lives is a little more fun when we're joined by old friends on the same journey.

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I was able to help Annalisa decorate her cap. My brother was kind enough to keep Lo busy while we tapped into our inner Martha Stewarts. We all know a toddler plus hot glue and glitter is a disaster waiting to happen. To be completely honest with you, I really didn't think my far-fetched idea would turn out and if it did, I didn't think it would hold. We got lucky. It turned out better than expected.
Family shot, minus Rene :(
I still get a little choked up at the thought of my little sister graduating high school. Where has the time gone? Anna kept teasing that I would be thirty when she would be twenty-one. I'm getting old!

The graduation ceremony was filled with an energy. An energy backed by love and support from the friends, family, and loved ones that filled the bleachers to cheer on the graduates of 2011.
 Yep, iPad to the rescue!
 It was so exciting hearing my sister's name be announced.
And even more exciting meeting her after the ceremony!
Let's try that again....
 ...much better!
 Congratulations, Anna!!!! We are so proud of you!